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First Timers & Novices Are you curious about exploring your wild darker side but embarrassed or afraid to seek out a professional Mistress??? Or perhaps you have already dabbled and have had a bad experience but still feel that quiet incessant urge to explore? We get so many calls from people who are new to the BDSM or fetish scene or who have already dabbled with disastrous consequences that I felt it necessary to devote an entire section to the 'newbies'. The soundest advice I can give anyone who is interested in visiting a Mistress is to go to a fully licensed venue (or a 'commercial' establishment). Fetish House has highly trained professional Mistresses in all areas of BDSM and fetish. Illegal venues are not subjected to the same strict health criteria that legal venues are. In fact illegal fetish venues are not subjected to any health criteria at all! This is extremely disturbing. What is also disturbing is the number of vanilla (or straight) venues who are putting a few bits of equipment into a room and advertising it as a dungeon. Often women who are unqualified are promoting themselves as experienced Mistresses and conducting sessions. Not being a professionally qualified Mistress can be extremely dangerous in many ways. We receive so many reports from people who have visited illegal or untrained Mistresses which have resulted in disastrous consequences. For further information as to what fetish, BDSM, kink, role-play and fantasy play are all about you will need to do some serious reading throughout this entire site. Start at the introductory page and work your way through the entire Menu Table. There's really no point in going into depth all over again on this particular page - I would just be repeating Myself. Many people who are into fetishes often have no idea of the origins or even a reason as to why a fetish activity appeals to them. They spend a great deal of their lives believing that they are 'weird' or 'unusual' in some way because there is this one thing or series of things that strikes an erotic chord deep within them. Society does its damndest to try to ensure that each and everyone of us is a good little 'vanilla' boy or girl right from the instant we are born. But as you grow older you become acutely aware of your 'non-vanilla' desires. you are aware that if you were to reveal your secret desire to your partner or your friends that you would be shunned by them. For those who have had the courage to explore their secret desires - bravo!!! For those who have not yet done so - what are you waiting for??? your dark desires are not going to go away - they are an intrinsic part of your psyche and should be embraced so that you can achieve balance. If you don't feel you can share your secret with your partner I believe you should seek out a professional Dominant or submissive (one that you know has experience in a legal or 'commercial' establishment) to assist with your initial journey. It is of paramount importance that you understand that we only condone activities between adults which are safe, sane and mutually consensual. In case the above sentence isn't already crystal clear I will explain further in detail - just to make sure that you absolutely get it!!! Any activity (whether vanilla or fetish) must be between persons over the age of 18. I would go as far to say that 18 is still just way too young for most people but that is the minimum legal requirement. As to what age a person should begin exploring their fetish side really depends on their own readiness and level of maturity. We will have no hesitation in reporting anyone to the relevant authorities we have suspicions of having any sexual involvement or potential sexual involvement with persons under 18 or with animals. Next is the safety issue. If the Mistress you are visiting works from a legal BDSM commercial venue you are already quite safe. Legal venues are subject to strict health standards both with the people who work there and the building itself. Also you can be confident in the fact that the Mistress you are seeing in one of these venues has the training to ensure the best possible safety measures are in place with regard to equipment being used, your health, her health and how far she can go with any given person in any number of different sessions. In the event that something should go awry she has the backup from other Mistresses who are ready to assist. Now onto sanity. BDSM, fetish and fantasy involve a great deal of mind games and can often be extremely mentally challenging for the submissive. The submissive is often vulnerable when they are in their special 'head space' and special care needs to be taken to ensure that they 'play' within their limitations both mentally as well as physically. Again as I have said in the previous paragraph a commercially trained Mistress has the training to recognise this and take you on a mind-blowing journey without pushing you over the edge. She'll push you to your limits but not past them!!! Mutually consensual means that you both are in agreeance as to what is to occur and what is permitted within your session. We will not do anything that you do not want us to! This is perhaps the very issue that many first-timers and novices are most frightened of. Some mistakenly believe that once they submit themselves to a Mistress they are going to be thrashed to within inches of their poor naive little lives. This is just not true! A professional Mistress will listen to your fantasies and desires and attempt to make them a reality. Rest assured that anything you have fantasised about is, most probably, what we do on a daily basis. |
Notices FETISH HOUSE PARTIES The date and time for the return of our Fetish House BDSM Parties has been set! Prepare yourself for a night of wicked exploitation, deviance and tortures! Those interested, please check the Bulletin Board for further details or forward your emails to fetishhouse@gmail.com NEW SPECIALS *
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