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The following are questions that we at Fetish House are asked on a regular basis. Some of them are very understandable but some are just downright silly! However the frequency of the asking has qualified them for inclusion in this section. I have also decided to include some other general notes or address any whinges and gripes that people have had either towards Myself, Fetish House or any other person or thing associated with Fetish House here:
GENERAL QUESTIONS
DOMINATION QUESTIONS
SUBMISSIVE QUESTIONS
OTHER NOTES
GENERAL QUESTIONS
What is BDSM?
Contrary
to popular naive belief BDSM is not all about "beating the
crap out of someone". In fact it is nothing about that!!!
your session
can be as sensual and gently erotic as you like. Ever fancied
just being tied to a bed, blindfolded and lightly tickled and
erotically teased? We can cater to your deepest, darkest fantasies.
Don't be scared to ask!!!
Sessions
can be as simple as a 15 minute spank or a golden shower right
through to extended lockup. For further information on particular
features of Fetish House check out the 'Bulletin Board'.
We can gently torment
you with erotic tease or be severe and nasty - its your choice.
you should discuss your needs and desires honestly, frankly and
not be embarrassed to leave out any detail. For those who just
want a little of the 'vanilla' stuff we have two or three ladies
(available on selected days) who are happy to provide a full sex
service. Please note: these ladies are not Mistresses - they can
kink things up for you and do some roleplay and fantasies but
they are not actually trained as Dominatrix's.
How long does my session need to be?
The length of your session is completely up to you. You can make it as long or as short as you like, however, be aware that if you ask for a wide arrange of activities and then only book a half hour session, you are limiting your own experience. The Mistress or submissive will do her best to include as much as she can, but cannot guarantee that you will get through everything.
If you would genuinely like advice on how long you should book, email a Mistress or call Fetish House and let them know what is included in your session to get an idea of how long you will need.
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Who should I see?
Although we can give recommendations based on the content of your session, we can never guarantee that that’s what you’re looking for. Chemistry and compatibility plays a vital role in a session, and even the most experienced Mistress cannot guarantee that you will have an explosive experience. All Mistresses and submissives at Fetish House endeavour to make your session as wonderful as possible – Like any other professional, they take great pride in their work and feel just as satisfied as you do when coming out of a good session.
The best thing to do is to go to our staff page, look over the pages, and see who you feel would be most suitable to your fetish and fantasy.
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How much is a session?
Please refer to the pricing page. Click here.
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Where are you located? And how do I get there?
Please refer to the ‘How To Get Here’ page on our website.
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Do you have ladies who provide full service?
Yes, we do. They are able to incorporate parts of fetish and fantasy into your session, but are not fully trained Mistresses if you are looking for heavier sessions. Please call us to see who is available for you.
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DOMINATION SESSIONS
Can I have sex with the Mistress?
For some Mistresses, yes, that is an option but this will need to be negotiated with the Mistress prior to the session taking place. Keep in mind that the Mistress will have additional fees applicable for more sexually explicit sessions. Not all Mistresses are open to this and others will determine whether they are on an individual basis and simply just how they happen to be feeling on any given day.
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How can I incorporate sex into my session?
Firstly please refer to the paragraph above which addresses whether one can have sex with a Mistress. However under other circumstances we can organise for a ‘submissive’ or 'fantasy girl' in for an additional fee. This lady will come in for 10 – 15 minutes to do this part of the session.
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Am I allowed to come in the session?
Yes, you are allowed to come in session. The way in which you achieve climax depends on the scenario you have negotiated with the Mistress. It may be more erotically-based, forcefully-based or directed. Some people even choose not to be allowed relief and to savour it for later. The choice is yours.
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How hard will the Mistress go on me?
Although you are the submissive in the session, you are still in control of your boundaries. Before the session, the Mistress will ask you what activities you’d like to do and how intense you require them to be. You will also have a safe word during session if something should become too painful or uncomfortable. It is of vital importance that you understand the Mistress is not going to do ANYTHING to you that you don't want her to. ALL sessions are safe, sane and consensual.
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SUBMISSIVE SESSIONS
Do all subs allow sex?
Not all submissives are sexual subs, and some subs prefer to develop a rapport with you first before allowing sex in those sessions. Again, it is best to discuss this individually with each submissive.
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How hard can I go?
Again, this differs from person to person. Intensity of a session must be negotiated beforehand with the submissive, and a safe word will also be nominated. It is vital that the safe word is adhered to and the submissive’s boundaries respected. Most of our submissives are quite capable and have a decent tolerance. All sessions are safe, sane and consensual. If you do something to our subs during the course of the session that she has not consented to (i.e. mark her when she has said she cannot receive marks or any other activity she has not agreed to) there will either be financial or other harsher penalties.
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Can I mark the submissive?
Not all submissives allow marking and those that do usually charge additional fees depending on how much marking you would like and where you would like it. Again, please email the individual submissive to discuss this.
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Can I have a Mistress participate in the session too?
Yes, you may certainly have a Mistress participate in the session either actively or as a guide. A Mistress in your session can enhance the voyeuristic elements of your session while you watch her dominate the submissive, or can show you how to correctly administer your torturous fantasies on the submissive and help you with the safety issues involved.
If you prefer to keep your session private between you and submissive, our subs are very experienced and can also guide you along the way.
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OTHER NOTES
Mistress Tara always seems so busy and it is difficult to talk with Her. Why is this so?
It is sometimes difficult to catch Me - I know this! I wear many hats at Fetish House (i.e. I co-ordinate sessions, I do all the computer work and I do all the administrative work!!!) There are often times where I take spontaneous days off in order to see to completing chores necessary for the day to day running of Fetish House. I do this because when I am on-site I am often interrupted and therefore not very productive. I make no apologies for this - running a business requires lots of time and effort.
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Fetish House's male in-house assistant:
Fetish House has a couple of male assistants or Managers that are a permanent in-house feature at Fetish House. There have been the odd occasions where someone has expressed discomfort at being shown in by them or answered the telephone by them. So I felt this issue should be addressed. They are extremely open-minded and well versed in all that goes on here. So don't be shy to talk to them directly as you will not be telling them anything they haven't heard before. However, if you are uncomfortable with speaking with them simply let them know and ask to speak to a Mistress or Myself. It is important to note here that many, many people who telephone instantly ask to speak with Me in person. I would like to be available to speak with everyone individually but I am often very busy and not available. Our house assistant's have an intimate knowledge of My availability and can almost always answer any questions you may have on behalf of Myself or anyone else at Fetish House.
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Spelling Errors:
Some of you have emailed Me from time to time to point out so-called 'spelling errors' in this site. I will clarify this once and for all!
you will notice that whenever I refer to Myself it is always with a capital 'M' and whenever I refer to you (presumably the sub) it is always with a small 'y' - even if it is at the beginning of a sentence. This is, in fact, correct protocol for addressing a Mistress or a sub and I will not be changing the format.
The other criticism has been My choice of finishing words with 'ise' instead of 'ize'. Given that I am an Australian I choose to spell like one! The Australian way of spelling is to use 'ise' (according to The Macquarie Encyclopedic Dictionary). I realise (or realize!) that either are acceptable but I will not be changing format here either!! If it traumatises you to see this difference in literature - too bad!!! And if there does appear to be a small spelling error somewhere else then - get over it!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Email Replies:
I do endeavour to answer all emails personally however I do not check them every single day. If you are sending Me an email of a session you are interested in please allow a minimum of 3 days. At any rate it is almost always better to get on the telephone and call us instead.
I simply do not have the time to respond to emails in any great detail and I am also not so charitable as to give out free email sessions. If you have sent Me an email and have not received a reply for a while it may be that I have received an error with your own email address or it could simply be that I did not find your approach appropriate or respectful enough!!!!!!!
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Volunteer slaves:
I receive many emails and phone calls from men who state they are willing to freely offer their services for cleaning, functions etc. but, in reality, are expecting the constant attention and contact they would receive in a fully paid-for session. If you are a non-paying volunteer you should be grateful for anything you receive - even if it is nothing! Any submissive's who wish to offer themselves as a volunteer should come in and complete a 'slave volunteer application form'. I don't send copies of this form out - you must come in so that we can see you when you complete the form. For further information go to our Volunteering & Service Exchange page.
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